According to a life coach, Nipa Asharam, being your own kind of beautiful is a great way of liberating yourself, because you know you are free from everything and enjoy according to your own self. Being confident in your skin and boy and being a firm believer in that can take you to ultimate level of satisfaction. Nipa stated that ‘’When you are your own kind of beautiful, you radiate, you bloom, and attract what you desire’’. There are some tips given by her which are mentioned below.
- DO MIRROR EXERCISE– practice your raw face with minimum clothing and try to see your unique beauty. Recognise all the good and bad things in life and see you what you are blessed with.
- BE STYLISH BUT NOT TRENDY– forget being or wearing trendy outfits, and wear in what you feel comfortable in. Wearing confidence is the key factor and one of most sexy thing someone can wear.
- BE PRESENT AND DON’T TOUCH YOUR PHONE– When you are with someone, don’t just look at your phone and be fully present. Physical and mental presence matters and using from phone refrain you from being fully present.
- ENTER THE ROOM WITH THIS MANTRA- ‘I am my own kind of beautiful’ is the mantra which should be remembered every time to focus on one self rather than comparing yourself to others.
- KNOW WHAT YOU ARE CURIOUS ABOUT– Be curious about things be it anything, latest news, trends, fashion. Bringing them onto the table reflects more out of your personality.
- TALK WITH PEOPLE AND NOT TO PEOPLE– there’s a difference between the two things. When talking to people it’s like giving no room for interactions and opinions or criticism and talking with people it’s like asking questions , inviting POV or talking with eye to eye contact.
- SEEK NO VALIDATION– Without seeking anyone’s validation do the things you like. The only thing that matters is your own validation on things in life.
Life is already too short, so instead of comparing it to others and seeking other people validation, love yourself in every way possible as only your self acceptance as a validation is needed with a sexy confidence level to boost you up. No one has the heart to do what you can do. Be smart and play smart. You are enough.